Couples coaching in Berlin – also online!
- You miss the togetherness, the closeness – just the beautiful life together as it once was?
- It seems like you don’t have much to say to each other anymore?
- Talking to each other doesn’t really work anymore, you often get into an argument instead?
- You have many challenges at the same time such as taking care of your children, stressful job, building a house, accompanying aging parents of your own, etc. and would like a support to strengthen you as a couple and not lose each other?
The desire for a happy partnership
If you as a couple have already had many conversations and tried a lot, but it still just feels like it’s not going uphill, but downhill, then sometimes the view of a neutral third party really makes sense. Because according to studies, most people want a long-term partnership. It is not always easy to lead a happy partnership – despite the everyday challenges such as a job, children, the need for care of one’s own parents, illness of a partner, etc. – this is not always easy.
I work with my clients both in person at my premises in Berlin-Zehlendorf, which I really appreciate, and online – a format that is indispensable in today’s world. This way of working is a little different, but still just as effective. Advantage: No one is tied to a specific location and you don’t have to travel to get there.
In an initial meeting we get to know each other and both sides can first check whether the chemistry is right. Of course, you can already tell in this first conversation what your topics are. Then, if you wish, follow-up meetings can be arranged according to your needs. With couples I usually work 90-120 min. If one of you would like to have a one-on-one conversation to reflect on yourself, we can of course arrange a different time frame.
Topics can be:
- We want to reflect on our communication because we are constantly getting into arguments.
- We would like a sorting of our topics because we are both so overloaded.
- It is important for us to work on our trust because it seems broken.
- We are in a current crisis and need support.
- We just keep silent and want to find each other again.
- We have lost the joy and we want to bring momentum back into our relationship.
- We are not getting anywhere and want to give our relationship another chance.
- We have different parenting styles and constantly clash.
- We have decided to separate, but we want to do it with decency and in good faith.
- We are separating and want to make meaningful arrangements as parents especially for our children.
Please write or call me to arrange a non-binding appointment.
I look forward to meeting you in person!
Svetlana Kostadinova-Rohde Tel: +49 179 768 21 60
Helpful impulses and solutions in the consulting process
Regardless of the topic you come to me with, it is of course not possible for me to promise you in advance that everything will be fine. I, too, cannot look into a crystal ball. However, I can report that the people who have been in my counseling so far have found helpful impulses and solutions in the joint process and have been able to find good paths for themselves. From experience, the consulting process lasts from 5 sessions upwards. However, you can decide together and above all freely how often, at what intervals and for how long you come to me. Because you are the client and can decide how long you want to use my support. Each path is unique. And as Steve de Shazer (American psychotherapist and author) said:
“It is simple, but not easy.”
I will be happy to support you! Either in my coaching room in Berlin-Zehlendorf or online.
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Client testimonials couple coaching
“My wife and I decided to have a couple’s coaching session with Ms. Kostadinowa. I was very sceptical about the whole thing, but I realized in the very first session that it is really helpful when a neutral person looks at personal issues. In just a few sessions, she helped us to find our way back to each other. Conversations, leisure time and togetherness are once again supported by a positive mood. Thank you for that!”
“Together with my husband, we attended a coaching session with Ms. Kostadinowa. She explained to us right from the start that it is important to be ready for process work, because not everything usually changes from one moment to the next. In fact, we used 9 sessions with her to reflect on our communication, what we want from each other and what we want for our life together. Ms. Kostadinowa offered us helpful structure, lots of clever questions and exciting constellation moments. I am simply glad that we consciously sought professional support for our partnership. Life together feels fulfilling and harmonious again.”
“My children had issues with me as a mother, so we went to a family mediation session with Ms. Kostadinowa. After a few sessions, it became clear that there were still some unresolved issues between my ex-husband from 30 years ago and me – deep-seated grievances. Mrs. Kostadinowa advised us to have a session together. I was actually amazed that this one session brought so much clarification between us after so many years and that this was also beneficial for our now grown-up children, like a domino effect. Thank you again.”